avassexytime:

I see a lot of quotes and memes that declare what a “real” man or woman does or does not do. (Examples from Tumblr today: “Real women should be their man’s own personal porn star” and another, “Real men eat pussy.”)

But aren’t we ALL “real” men and women?!

How about, instead of demanding what SHOULD or SHOULD NOT be the indicator of someone’s manliness or womanliness, we just express what we like and desire and let that come to us gracefully…For example: “I really like men who eat my pussy.”

Just a thought…

Always disliked the terms Real Men and Real Women.  No one is a figment of imagination, we are all real people.

sirandhisdiamond:

“Real women have curves.” “Chubby girls cuddle better.” “Men prefer women with ‘cushion’.”  …ect..

All these types of phrases need to go. Maybe the intention behind all of them is good and just to empower, but building up one group by tearing another down is not okay. What these phrases also say is that, “If you’re not curvy, then you’re not a real woman.”, “Thin girls aren’t good to cuddle with.”, “Men don’t care for thin/non curvy women.” 

It’s like when you notice that your car is drifting toward the center line so you turn the wheel and accidentally pull to hard, over-correcting and nearly going over the other line. 

The media/fashion portrayal that all women should look a certain way is off base and something that needs to be addressed, but not by saying women who look a certain other way are the only ones who are ‘real’ or that they’re better in some way because of their build. It’s going to far in the other direction instead of going to the middle. 

All women are ‘real’ women, regardless of their build, weight, height, ext… some have curves and some don’t, some are thin and others ‘thick’, tall or short…it doesn’t matter!!!!  You can be confident and sexy and beautiful no matter what. 

Embrace the way you are without putting others down in the process. Men and women come in all shapes and sizes. There’s no one type that all men or all women(for that matter) want/find attractive. We need to stop generalizing and realize that everyone is different, there is no such thing as normal. 

There is no such thing as normal. 

~Diamond

Perfectly said.

onelostdarkangel:

guilty-pleasures-desires:

mirroredwithin:

I thought about this question the other day with the expectation that one of my vanilla friends was going to ask me. How would I answer? The simple answer is that I wear it to show that I am His.  It’s a symbol for other men and women to see that I am taken….But it’s so much more than that.

My collar is a symbol of my commitment to Him and His commitment to me, but it’s also a reminder…a reminder of all that He has done, all He is doing and all that He will do to earn the right to put it on me and keep it there…. 

He listens to me.

He communicates very well and always speaks the truth, even when it’s not what I want to hear.

He gives me sound advice, guides and coaches me through any situation.

He is understanding and shows empathy.

He protects and keeps me safe always.

He takes the time to learn me, how my mind works, how to best handle me.

He makes me feel accomplished, even in the most mundane tasks of everyday life.

He is my support, my anchor and my cheerleader.

He celebrates who I really am and has helped me to become all that I should be.

He trusts me.

He never judges me, even if we have differing opinions.

I am His priority.

He respects me in all ways.

When He is having a bad day or a rough time He will accept my support, lean on me a little and let me help Him though it.

He never ever takes me for granted or takes advantage of me.

He asks for my opinion and advice sometimes.

Each day He makes me feel special, loved, cherished and adored.

He is always patient.

He holds me accountable and His discipline is chosen wisely.

If He is wrong he admits it, apologizes and corrects anything that needs corrected.

He’s affectionate verbally and physically.  He’s always touching me. ;)

He shares His feelings, thoughts and opinions…good or bad.

He challenges me to think about things from a different point of view.

He nurtures my sexuality and sees that my sexual needs are satisfied.

He ensures I have no doubts about His passion and desire for me.

He ALWAYS puts my needs before His own.

He proves that His love and sacrifice knows no bounds.

Each and every day he loves me unconditionally and He doesn’t just tell me, but makes me BELIEVE that I am the most loved woman in the world.

I see my collar and I am reminded of all of the above wonderful gifts, the hard work, love and dedication, that my Alpha, @alphaedge, gives me each and every day.  He has earned my trust, my love, my respect, my heart…and that is why I am honored and proud to wear His collar. ~mw

@onelostdarkangel

100% @guilty-pleasures-desires

onelostdarkangel:

petit-poisson-en-cage:

parum-desiderio-meo:

maggie-licious:

What exactly do older men do better

Everything. Treat women respectfully. Earn and spend money. Travel. Eat. Fuck.

Older men have patience, in and out of the bedroom. Foreplay doesn’t start (or only last) five minutes after you get naked. With us, it often starts hours in advance and never really stops. We understand that your mind and your heart are the most important sexual organs and we know how to expose and nurture them.

Older men want to draw out your pleasure. Not simply so that you can have a bigger, better orgasms (and you will), but because they enjoy watching what they do to you, and how your body reacts. There’s no wham-bam-thank-you-ma’am.

Older men believe in ladies first, and often. Our goal isn’t to simply cum and be done. And even getting that one orgasm out of you is not a goal. We love foreplay, we don’t mind working hard for your orgasms — plural. We take pride when we provide orgasm after orgasm that leaves you shaking, breathless and weak. Personally, I like when you lose count. And believe me… I will make you count them out. I’ll even let you pick the number you want ahead of time. And then I’ll obliterate it, no matter which number you pick.

Older men, in general also have better control over their bodies, whether it’s experience or maturity… we take longer to finish. Older men can give you multiple orgasms, spend hours on foreplay, have sex as long as you want, changing positions fifteen times, and still not have an orgasm of their own.

Young men don’t necessarily grasp that the point of sex isn’t necessarily to get yourself off. For us, sex is about the connection, the intimacy, and the shared pleasure.

For me, cumming is nice, but it’s not necessary for me to have an absolutely amazing time. For me, it’s all about my ability to provide you with pleasure and my absolute command over your experience, whether it’s a quickie or a six hour solid afternoon fuck session.

Try us. You’ll love us.

Source: risuperman1967

Love his answer unfortunatly the source is deactivated. Now I can reblog it forever 💋

And yes! It’s absolutely true 😊

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That they do! Love my man! @guilty-pleasures-desires